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Does my wife (suspected BPD) know she got BPD? Trygvasson 1 97 Last post July 26, 2016, 10:22:41 AM
by Meili
In sickness and in health Isaih 9 307 Last post July 26, 2016, 12:57:00 AM
by Isaih
Learning of BP and wanting to tell spouse Infernoland 3 153 Last post July 25, 2016, 08:13:17 PM
by Meili
She's numb blueeyes567 1 94 Last post July 25, 2016, 04:09:10 PM
by Meili
Partner awaiting DBT, what to do in meantime? Woods77 2 88 Last post July 25, 2016, 03:36:56 PM
by NotThatGuy
leaving the man i love? lara0102 1 84 Last post July 25, 2016, 02:04:49 PM
by Meili
Marriage Counseling - Does it Work? « 1 2  All » dealingwithit 10 1088 Last post July 25, 2016, 09:04:24 AM
by Skip
I'm sabotaging my relationship again Nola68 3 125 Last post July 25, 2016, 02:07:33 AM
by Hlinthewiking
Loosing myself: indecisive « 1 2 ... 5 6  All » Hlinthewiking 50 804 Last post July 24, 2016, 01:50:52 PM
by Hlinthewiking
Crying Gampopa21 2 118 Last post July 24, 2016, 01:47:40 PM
by an0ught
BPD bf sleeps on his ex wifes couch to spend more time with troubled kids pizzamargarita 1 62 Last post July 24, 2016, 01:29:27 PM
by Dutched
I need help... « 1 2  All » Green River 17 351 Last post July 23, 2016, 02:29:16 AM
by zonnebloem
Stuck in endless 'grey area', anyone else? Zinnia21 9 279 Last post July 22, 2016, 06:57:22 PM
by lar, laris
Girlfriend (would-be fiancee?) just diagnosed with BPD Fritz_27 2 85 Last post July 22, 2016, 06:20:09 PM
by NotThatGuy
Respect and trust « 1 2  All » NotThatGuy 11 300 Last post July 22, 2016, 09:37:40 AM
by NotThatGuy
For a moment, I genuinely forgot that my boyfriend is a dxBPD misuniadziubek 3 144 Last post July 22, 2016, 09:16:44 AM
by joshbjoshb
How do I help her not be overwhelmed with cleaning ArleighBurke 5 125 Last post July 22, 2016, 08:49:53 AM
by waverider
How can I help my body husbAnd who wants everyone to believe I am controlling Marrosa 1 64 Last post July 22, 2016, 08:26:54 AM
by BestVersionOfMe
In a new relationship with BPD partner moneypenny 4 175 Last post July 20, 2016, 01:52:45 PM
by bunny4523
New Parasite Host? BestVersionOfMe 5 149 Last post July 20, 2016, 10:12:07 AM
by Turkish
Sabotaging the relationship Narkiss 4 239 Last post July 18, 2016, 11:46:30 PM
by schwing
Anybody Else Deal With This? dacoming 2 139 Last post July 18, 2016, 04:07:25 PM
by dacoming
BPD behavior coming back BowlOfPetunias 2 101 Last post July 18, 2016, 02:14:31 PM
by NotThatGuy
Don't want to go home. And that's the bottomline RichButPoor 2 136 Last post July 18, 2016, 02:12:22 PM
by schwing
She wants unconditional love ArleighBurke 5 203 Last post July 17, 2016, 07:49:37 PM
by Lilyroze
Does a third party being involved tend to trigger you more Baulwin 2 115 Last post July 17, 2016, 01:46:15 PM
by Skip
my wife is in denial Astolat 1 79 Last post July 17, 2016, 01:14:18 PM
by Skip
Separation anxiety as a non when things are going well prettyflowers 1 78 Last post July 17, 2016, 11:33:08 AM
by MaybeSo
Is this common? « 1 2  All » Hopeful07 10 309 Last post July 16, 2016, 12:56:15 AM
by waverider
Choosing to Stay "In Sickness and in Health" And the price you pay for it. Lighthouse777 3 119 Last post July 15, 2016, 05:19:23 PM
by NotThatGuy
Breaking out of bad spirals globalnomad 1 90 Last post July 15, 2016, 03:20:05 PM
by livednlearned
At the end of my rope and it's only been two months Frustrated6747 2 105 Last post July 15, 2016, 08:23:53 AM
by UnforgivenII
living with a BPD for 9 years, not all bad, current rages destroying my soul kalina 8 228 Last post July 15, 2016, 01:14:53 AM
by kalina
Hi :-) I need your help. Thanks in advance UnforgivenII 6 261 Last post July 14, 2016, 08:45:04 PM
by Riverrat
How did you help your BPD partner realize that they have BPD? joshbjoshb 4 121 Last post July 13, 2016, 02:45:48 PM
by Hlinthewiking
How do you know if your BPD GF really loves you? True Grenadine 2 171 Last post July 13, 2016, 01:29:22 PM
by Icanteven
How to balance push/pull? « 1 2 3  All » Jessica84 28 552 Last post July 13, 2016, 01:14:22 PM
by Jessica84
Controlling Our Environment townhouse 9 385 Last post July 13, 2016, 02:16:12 AM
by townhouse
Any hope? « 1 2  All » Mr Orange 13 264 Last post July 12, 2016, 03:31:03 PM
by Mr Orange
Wife is in Denial and Lying Constantly To Me 0502910116 1 115 Last post July 12, 2016, 11:50:10 AM
by livednlearned
Sexual problems and affair brunoorteez 1 152 Last post July 12, 2016, 11:46:14 AM
by livednlearned
What is considered respect? Cloudy Days 8 329 Last post July 12, 2016, 12:18:27 AM
by motherhen
Been at it for so long - II « 1 2 3  All » BestVersionOfMe 26 383 Last post July 11, 2016, 03:31:26 AM
by waverider
Do I give in to her control ultimatum? « 1 2  All » ArleighBurke 11 258 Last post July 11, 2016, 12:00:43 AM
by waverider
Regulating emotions externally foggydew 1 89 Last post July 09, 2016, 08:25:43 PM
by waverider
Pregnant GF Distancing Herself bern4606 1 97 Last post July 09, 2016, 04:26:06 PM
by an0ught
Newbie here motherhen 3 95 Last post July 08, 2016, 11:32:55 PM
by Turkish
Reliable Cycles of Fighting « 1 2 3  All » Oncebitten 22 431 Last post July 08, 2016, 03:45:35 PM
by BestVersionOfMe
Why does he accuse me of being controlling? « 1 2  All » Kimtexas43 11 314 Last post July 07, 2016, 09:33:00 PM
by BestVersionOfMe
How do I tell her that she's going to lose me unless she stops drinking? « 1 2  All » Yaffle 14 412 Last post July 07, 2016, 09:00:19 AM
by BestVersionOfMe
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