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Loving a BPD Spouse or Significant Other,
What Does it Take to Be in a Relationship
Why We Struggle in Our Relationships
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Codependency and Codependent Relationships
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Introduction pls 4 173 Last post August 22, 2016, 02:43:39 PM
by VitaminC
MOVED: need advice once removed 0 56 Last post August 22, 2016, 12:12:59 PM
by once removed
Tired of validation (I exploded) « 1 2  All » CrazyChuck 19 659 Last post August 21, 2016, 03:02:56 PM
by waverider
I am dating a woman with BPD and would appreciate the insight of others autonomyfull 9 294 Last post August 21, 2016, 02:21:46 PM
by waverider
Alcoholism -SET to address? Please help Everglow 3 138 Last post August 19, 2016, 05:18:26 PM
by waverider
it's my birthday « 1 2  All » claryhunter 10 379 Last post August 19, 2016, 01:53:19 PM
by Jessica84
Facebook obsession? « 1 2  All » Jessica84 11 435 Last post August 19, 2016, 01:26:43 PM
by Jessica84
I think my boyfriend has BPD « 1 2  All » justloverain 14 324 Last post August 19, 2016, 12:58:22 PM
by Jessica84
let's get married... no, just friends... gulp, sigh « 1 2 3  All » lar, laris 21 699 Last post August 18, 2016, 06:16:04 PM
by Lilyroze
Need help with this conversation « 1 2  All » jrharvey 16 467 Last post August 18, 2016, 01:12:38 AM
by Grey Kitty
How to stop the name calling Cloudy Days 8 272 Last post August 18, 2016, 01:07:15 AM
by adaw
It gets really good and then really bad - verbal and physical abuse « 1 2  All » ck1nix 10 460 Last post August 18, 2016, 01:04:05 AM
by heartandwhole
Hi my first time here. Sysyphus 7 238 Last post August 17, 2016, 07:56:34 PM
by Sysyphus
How do you let them know their being irrational when they can't manage their emo « 1 2 3 4 5  All » Horus 44 1413 Last post August 17, 2016, 05:02:02 PM
by Jessica84
My husband has zero friends « 1 2  All » Cloudy Days 11 602 Last post August 17, 2016, 01:08:01 PM
by adaw
Rare night out goes well...until BowlOfPetunias 3 217 Last post August 17, 2016, 10:44:11 AM
by BowlOfPetunias
I feel like I'm on the verge of a nervous breakdown Soozles 5 156 Last post August 16, 2016, 09:26:20 PM
by ArleighBurke
Is taking about interest in other women common with BPD partners? claryhunter 8 410 Last post August 16, 2016, 02:40:07 PM
by waverider
BPD Friend Going Through a Tough Time SummerStorm 5 177 Last post August 16, 2016, 11:04:49 AM
by Notwendy
Parenting with a BPD--extracurricular activities BowlOfPetunias 2 104 Last post August 16, 2016, 10:11:55 AM
by teapay
We had a really heated argument... Legacyvet 7 254 Last post August 16, 2016, 07:21:43 AM
by Legacyvet
Supporting her with the kids BowlOfPetunias 5 189 Last post August 15, 2016, 03:53:43 PM
by BowlOfPetunias
Just another day jrharvey 5 339 Last post August 15, 2016, 06:49:45 AM
by adaw
We are fighting again. What is JADE? Algarve1971 8 447 Last post August 15, 2016, 04:54:05 AM
by an0ught
Trying not to react to her jealousy « 1 2  All » jrharvey 10 348 Last post August 14, 2016, 05:37:50 PM
by Grey Kitty
Husband just diagnosed with BPD... Abbysmommy2011 8 424 Last post August 14, 2016, 04:53:05 PM
by adaw
Is there such a thing as a truthful BPD ? « 1 2  All » william3693 12 742 Last post August 14, 2016, 04:49:24 PM
by adaw
He wants to draw my tattoo Cloudy Days 2 212 Last post August 14, 2016, 04:42:33 PM
by adaw
Ever have this issue in your relationship? Baulwin 6 268 Last post August 14, 2016, 04:40:48 PM
by adaw
I love her. How to get a diagnosis and treatment. « 1 2  All » CoolThroawayName 10 393 Last post August 14, 2016, 03:10:35 PM
by adaw
Like defusing a bomb « 1 2  All » storagecold 16 667 Last post August 14, 2016, 03:03:19 PM
by adaw
I cooked too much broccoli. isilme 7 352 Last post August 14, 2016, 02:58:47 PM
by adaw
Thoughts on new boundary jrharvey 2 183 Last post August 14, 2016, 02:28:49 PM
by Skip
Ex GF has Boardeline Traits , Need Urgent advice « 1 2  All » stewlion07 10 322 Last post August 14, 2016, 01:31:39 PM
by SweetCharlotte
Behavioral Extinction Tool malaclemys1960 3 836 Last post August 14, 2016, 04:15:33 AM
by an0ught
Visiting from Detaching board - advice needed please izzybusy 1 122 Last post August 14, 2016, 03:51:25 AM
by an0ught
What does he need to hear from me at this point? « 1 2 ... 5 6  All » patientandclear 58 1692 Last post August 13, 2016, 09:35:08 PM
by Turkish
A trip away from my GF and a few other things « 1 2 3  All » jrharvey 22 381 Last post August 13, 2016, 03:08:18 PM
by jrharvey
24-year marriage, and she says it's over (again) NiceGuy22 2 144 Last post August 13, 2016, 06:34:50 AM
by Notwendy
Outside events affect behaviour townhouse 2 149 Last post August 12, 2016, 03:21:28 PM
by NotThatGuy
Help with Silent Treatment Hoping339 2 167 Last post August 12, 2016, 12:30:35 PM
by Lilyroze
BPDxgf still wants sex « 1 2  All » oz geary 12 486 Last post August 12, 2016, 02:20:31 AM
by heartandwhole
Hello efv48473 5 161 Last post August 11, 2016, 07:59:25 PM
by ArleighBurke
Should I play dumb? anonymous_in_NV 6 259 Last post August 11, 2016, 05:20:31 PM
by waverider
Bpd husband's behavior has returned. Need help 2long4sp 3 169 Last post August 11, 2016, 09:47:55 AM
by Turkish
Dealing with Anniversaries of Past Events - Their Reactions SummerStorm 0 218 Last post August 10, 2016, 09:28:57 PM
by SummerStorm
MOVED: Partner Left With 2 Young Children, Won't Let Me See Them Turkish 0 66 Last post August 10, 2016, 10:13:17 AM
by Turkish
How to better respond « 1 2 3  All » Lost_Kayaker 27 528 Last post August 10, 2016, 07:01:08 AM
by Lost_Kayaker
Losing my mind masongirl 1 127 Last post August 08, 2016, 05:21:41 AM
by patientandclear
How do you know when enough is enough? Fraggle12 3 238 Last post August 07, 2016, 10:56:03 PM
by waverider
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