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Loving a BPD Spouse or Significant Other,
What Does it Take to Be in a Relationship
Why We Struggle in Our Relationships
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Codependency and Codependent Relationships
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what events led up to diagnosis? spouseofbp 6 1228 Last post November 21, 2005, 12:54:29 PM
by timeforclarity
Told DH he has BPD dakota 1 935 Last post November 23, 2005, 10:43:49 AM
by Abigail
The ups and downs of therapy solvera 2 949 Last post November 23, 2005, 11:04:29 AM
by solvera
Drama,Drama,Drama,I need a BreaK lisab2005 5 1276 Last post November 24, 2005, 09:23:31 AM
by been there
non pop quiz LAnn 9 1566 Last post November 25, 2005, 11:08:23 AM
by Madonna
Does everyones BPDSO lie constantly « 1 2  All » ztwoods 14 2478 Last post November 25, 2005, 01:12:11 PM
by John Galt
Update on Hs amazing progress « 1 2  All » marnie 12 2139 Last post November 27, 2005, 05:32:25 PM
by At_Bay
Unbelievable lisab2005 6 1314 Last post November 28, 2005, 10:44:23 AM
by lisab2005
Stepped in it again SmallVoice 6 1315 Last post November 29, 2005, 11:30:38 AM
by SmallVoice
Feeling violated Jnah2004 6 1240 Last post November 30, 2005, 07:12:57 AM
by counter
I think my GF is BPD.. I have some questions and hope for advice.. I care too much 5 1388 Last post December 01, 2005, 11:56:17 PM
by DancingCrows
Hi. Madonna 7 1161 Last post December 03, 2005, 11:46:46 AM
by been there
Trying to come to agreement with BPD on anything shortstuff 3 945 Last post December 05, 2005, 10:00:23 AM
by supermom
Something the T said shortstuff 1 802 Last post December 06, 2005, 08:13:40 AM
by SmallVoice
beany update beany 7 1185 Last post December 06, 2005, 02:35:27 PM
by At_Bay
Every weekend Crisis WHY? hELP lisab2005 4 1134 Last post December 07, 2005, 11:42:38 AM
by lisab2005
BPDW Needs Her Space crash888 5 1448 Last post December 07, 2005, 07:09:39 PM
by JoannaK
Would like opinions on T’s advice « 1 2  All » Caribou 11 1853 Last post December 08, 2005, 08:13:05 AM
by Caribou
Still Digesting Thanksgiving (long) CasaG 5 1065 Last post December 08, 2005, 03:49:06 PM
by At_Bay
Just Want to Keep It Civil Tigerlily 8 1483 Last post December 08, 2005, 07:04:18 PM
by livingw/ochaos
Book - "CONTROLLING PEOPLE" by Patricia Evans Johnjm 4 1558 Last post January 23, 2006, 11:48:55 AM
by timeforclarity
techniques to work with BPD lazy behaviors shortstuff 9 6529 Last post January 24, 2006, 10:18:52 PM
by BetterThingsToDo
need help re: psychiatrist lightnin 3 2682 Last post January 25, 2006, 02:37:07 PM
by John Galt
Re: My first post... working hard to sustain a chosen r'ship with BP Bdawn 9 1716 Last post January 27, 2006, 01:59:16 PM
by Abigail
CONSTANTLY being treated like ghosts from the past huh 1 889 Last post January 28, 2006, 09:28:29 PM
by amybeth79
How do I stop « 1 2  All » lisab2005 11 1790 Last post January 29, 2006, 09:17:49 AM
by Oy-vey!
And tell me again - what are we all waiting for? « 1 2  All » shortstuff 18 3047 Last post January 30, 2006, 10:27:52 AM
by wojah
Could it be? « 1 2  All » resilient one 12 1918 Last post January 30, 2006, 10:43:03 AM
by wojah
Walking on eggshells nativeinme1 2 914 Last post January 30, 2006, 01:16:01 PM
by nativeinme1
Make the books available to buy as eBooks youngy 1 781 Last post January 30, 2006, 01:31:39 PM
by missy1068
Therapy elphaba 2 1088 Last post February 01, 2006, 09:18:39 AM
by JoannaK
BPD and stress? « 1 2  All » wojah 11 2096 Last post February 03, 2006, 07:57:49 AM
by Caribou
Update on Recovery « 1 2  All » Caribou 10 1698 Last post February 03, 2006, 10:38:51 AM
by John Galt
The BPD "loves me" huh 9 2100 Last post February 03, 2006, 10:45:33 AM
by huh
I hope I have finally found the right place... getting discouraged. Kare 9 1483 Last post February 03, 2006, 11:22:41 AM
by Kare
Just asking a question- I think it will help me. jess2k6 4 948 Last post February 03, 2006, 02:36:09 PM
by At_Bay
Now she will not move in? wart 9 1823 Last post February 05, 2006, 04:46:28 PM
by wart
parenting with a BPD shortstuff 9 1485 Last post February 05, 2006, 10:44:40 PM
by spritom
welcome to my tardis meredith 2 791 Last post February 06, 2006, 05:56:04 AM
by meredith
H found my stop walking on eggshells book mice-elf 8 1723 Last post February 06, 2006, 09:39:09 AM
by pip
Pulse Rate 3 Million Kare 7 1196 Last post February 06, 2006, 12:40:46 PM
by Kare
A big kudos to the 'committing to working on it' crowd « 1 2  All » spritom 15 2168 Last post February 08, 2006, 05:18:29 PM
by JoannaK
wanting another "real" chance « 1 2  All » burnedtwice 13 2368 Last post February 08, 2006, 05:32:10 PM
by JoannaK
not for me sgk1371 0 982 Last post February 09, 2006, 05:00:39 AM
by sgk1371
Drama-free weekend « 1 2  All » huh 14 2268 Last post February 09, 2006, 06:50:40 AM
by huh
Re: I need some sense of hope here chuckme 9 2482 Last post February 09, 2006, 10:19:28 AM
by The Wife
''Marriage counselling'' with my BPD wife « 1 2  All » John Galt 19 3408 Last post February 09, 2006, 10:23:36 AM
by John Galt
so much work... elphaba 6 1039 Last post February 09, 2006, 10:25:23 AM
by lennic
I need help,I'm new Cloey 5 1162 Last post February 09, 2006, 01:15:29 PM
by John Galt
How do YOU deal with "SILENT TREATMENT" ? spouseofbp 4 3490 Last post February 09, 2006, 06:56:11 PM
by I.Am.I
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