[L5] Parenting after the Split

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		Single Parent Go-Bag	DavidWebb	3	123	May 23, 2013, 02:14:11 PM by motherof1yearold
		Do your skids seem older or younger?	sanemom	7	129	May 23, 2013, 10:09:19 AM by Pidge
		How to protect our son without invalidating H	lizzie458	5	142	May 22, 2013, 10:03:38 PM by Blazing Star
		Trying to digest BPD's latest email RE DV/therapy- response help needed	hell0kitty	16	234	May 21, 2013, 05:43:06 PM by david
		School/Aftercare Pick ups	Thunderstruck	7	149	May 18, 2013, 02:24:45 AM by dutchie
		Me, my kids and stbxBPDw's new bf	theirdad	10	375	May 17, 2013, 06:50:02 PM by Free One
		Happy Mothers Day text from BPD BioMom... WOW	mamachelle	7	184	May 15, 2013, 01:16:45 PM by mamachelle
		Refuses to have anything to do with our grown kids ...	talithacumi	3	92	May 15, 2013, 12:39:28 PM by mamachelle
		Experience with the German system?	nehemiah	11	446	May 14, 2013, 02:59:44 AM by indigosun
		How's it going with BPD ex husbands?	momtara	12	480	May 12, 2013, 07:19:55 PM by whirlpoollife
		Interesting T session	marbleloser	2	120	May 10, 2013, 04:26:14 PM by marbleloser
		To All of You... Parenting After it All	NewWays	4	203	May 09, 2013, 01:12:11 PM by Free One
		MOVED: just need some advice...	DreamGirl	0	60	May 08, 2013, 01:20:22 PM by DreamGirl
		International Imperfect Family Celebration Week	mamachelle	9	136	May 07, 2013, 09:38:50 PM by mamachelle
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		Biased counselor may be helping anyway...	sanemom	4	160	May 03, 2013, 11:46:45 AM by david
		DDwD18 NC wit BDf	Rubies	7	151	May 02, 2013, 10:37:34 PM by david
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		Daughter wants to meet father's gf	changingtimes	7	136	April 28, 2013, 11:53:35 PM by changingtimes
		looking for opinions quick	david	4	173	April 27, 2013, 02:48:50 AM by Matt
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		The typhoon hit...	ennie	9	263	April 23, 2013, 10:15:01 AM by Althea
		Advice, support? how to deal with this?	theirdad	2	117	April 22, 2013, 02:36:13 PM by nak
		Struggling	NorthernGirl	5	186	April 21, 2013, 11:08:24 AM by mamachelle
		Advice from child w/BPD parent who divorced	CAJill	2	224	April 20, 2013, 05:00:12 PM by zaqsert
		Tag who is it?	changingtimes	7	213	April 19, 2013, 05:31:13 PM by changingtimes
		How is the best way to do LC when kids are involved	cal644	4	174	April 18, 2013, 02:06:12 PM by Lucky Jim
		Split me black again, won't communicate about child	motherof1yearold	7	275	April 17, 2013, 07:24:35 AM by changingtimes

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