So...tonight, while working on some stuff at the library, I get a text message from the guy I asked before my partner and I started having marital problems to donate sperm for us to have a baby. My partner has PCOS, and does not ovulate on her own. So, she seemed OK in the moment, but then, later, I decided to tell a friend of mine that he said yes, and my partner went off. She said I was rushing her, that I didn't understand and would never understand that she can't just try to have a baby. But, I do understand. I have been with her for 5 years, and know fully well that she can't just get pregnant. I have been researching options and such to get her the fertility medications, etc. I feel like I am trying so hard.
But, she was so angry with me, she wouldn't let me console her, and she went upstairs to talk to the guy she told me a few weeks she has feelings for. I felt like we were getting into a good place, and now I am so confused, hurt, and angry.