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Hi hodasalim
Sounds like your bf has opened up and explained that he likes to sort out his issues the way he chooses to. That it has nothing to do with you.
It's hard being on the outside looking in, but when someone has their curtains drawn and we go up to the window peering in with a flashlight, they learn not to trust us.
Funny how that works, isn't it?
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maybe you are right ... I sound like the creepy person trying to see what is behind the curtains :/
Nope ... my bf is not on therapy ... we live in Egypt to is quite hard to find a therapist who is knowledgable enough about BPD.
he has been to 5 therapists before and they all diagnosed him with BPD however they just adv with the meds and didnt offer much help with the psychological therapy.
He is doing so well on his own I have to admit and he is improving really quickly ... he doesnt feel like everyone hates him and all of this anymore or not as much as he used to and his self esteem still remains a challenge I guess however it is much better that it used to be 2 years ago