ok... as many of you know things with my wife have been rough the past 3 months... .
a trip with her parents went back in Europe and I flew her back, followed 2 weeks later by some heavy medical bills at the ER...
followed 2 weeks after that with a car accident
followed 3 weeks after that with a dui
followed 2 weeks later with a trip to austin to give testimony against a doctor who had verbally assaulted her and threatened her during an abortion... the trip went very badly...
I got a number to a lawyer to talk to her about my options at this point without my wife knowing...
my wife just calls me and tells me she just learned 5 minutes ago her mother has terminal cancer...
i dont know how either of us can handle all this piling on of horrible horrible news... some is certainly her doing, but some is just horrible crap that is leading to her behavior because she is BPD...
I do not know how to help her or myself at this point
If I may say, yes, I appreciate that you are really, really having a hard time
When I read the treads, I sometimes think that thing are bad for me, then realize that there
are other non's that are in even worse situations ... .I am feeling for you ... .so much ... .
HH, I pray for you buddy ... .may God give you and your wife comfort ... .