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« on: August 15, 2014, 12:18:07 AM »

Tuesday morning, my whole world came crashing.

The love of my life had passed away during his sleep.

In a few hours, I will be saying my last goodbyes... .I cannot understand how I'm supposed to say goodbye to my best friend, confident and love of my life and move on... .how do you say goodbye to your soul mate of 20 years?

I'm completely overwhelmed with grief and pain. People keep reminding me that he no longer suffers from any struggles and he's free of all his torments, but selfishly, I want him with me so I know it will be ok.
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« Reply #1 on: August 15, 2014, 03:22:04 AM »

   So sorry to hear this, Foreverhopefull :'(

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers
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« Reply #2 on: August 15, 2014, 04:57:20 AM »

So sorry for your loss x
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« Reply #3 on: August 15, 2014, 09:02:48 AM »

I'm so terribly sorry to hear that Foreverhopeful.     My thoughts and prayers are with you.  Please take good care of yourself.
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« Reply #4 on: August 16, 2014, 01:47:02 AM »

I am so sorry for your loss Foreverhopefull  :'(
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« Reply #5 on: August 20, 2014, 12:32:58 AM »



Wow... .I don't know what to say. Nothing I say will make you feel better... .how could it? I hope you you if d just a smidgen in comfort in knowing your loss has effected me, and I feel nothing but love and empathy for you. I am sorry you are in this position, and in hope you can find peace wherever you can find it. My condolences




Tuesday morning, my whole world came crashing.

The love of my life had passed away during his sleep.

In a few hours, I will be saying my last goodbyes... .I cannot understand how I'm supposed to say goodbye to my best friend, confident and love of my life and move on... .how do you say goodbye to your soul mate of 20 years?

I'm completely overwhelmed with grief and pain. People keep reminding me that he no longer suffers from any struggles and he's free of all his torments, but selfishly, I want him with me so I know it will be ok.

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« Reply #6 on: August 20, 2014, 10:19:02 AM »

My heart is breaking for you.  Words fail at easing any of the horrific pain and shock you are dealing with, but please know that I am thinking of you. 
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« Reply #7 on: August 20, 2014, 01:58:12 PM »

I'm sorry for your loss, Foreverhopefull 

This has got to be hard; please know that we are all pulling for you to find peace soon.

And I do believe that he is now free of his struggles, torment and sadness, and in a much, much better place... .

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