I am wondering if others who have pwBPD in their lives notice this pattern:
This happed about a week ago in the morning as I am going to work. She has been deregulated for a day or two. Say that the r/s is over, I don't respect her, I am narcissistic, etc. All within a rage. So I do my quick shower and out to work thing (I now have instant oatmeal at work and grab an americano on the way to deal with mornings like this). So I am just getting in my car to go, and she rushes out and says, ":)on't you want any coffee? I made extra for you."
I have notice it at other times as well, e.g.:
- Conflict for three days. Conflict ends. Then it is revealed that on day two of the conflict she got me two new sweaters for work.
- Conflict. She say that she wants to end the r/s. I go out for hours. Come home and she has got a nice take out dinner. And has got a dish for me.
What is this patten about?