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« on: October 04, 2014, 12:31:59 PM »

After 2 weeks of no out bursts, last night the accusations started again which ended in her ending the relationship with me.

I had to attend a wake as one of my employee's mother passed away.  I went with the rest of my employees to show support.

I butt dialed her phone by accident for 18 minutes, and during those 18 minutes I was sitting in the hall way, and talking to my employee trying to give comfort.

She then brought her family members and introduced them to all of us one by one and I introduced myself as well.

She calls me back during the eulogy and I didn't pick.  I texted her back saying "sorry babe we're in middle of a eulogy can I call you in a few minutes?"

She texts "you shady mother___er! you don't pick up my call becauseM you're too busy chatting up a girl?"

I was very confused so I said "I wasn't chatting up anyone, the eulogy is taking place right now so I can call you right after?"

She: "I heard all of your conversation, it was a solo conversation between you and a girl that I do not know and you were hitting on her!"

Me: "babe you're mistaken, I wasn't hitting on anyone.  Did you mean the time I was introduced to my employee's family?"

she: "this is a sign from God, he was looking out for me to stay away from you.  I knew it all along! All of my prayers have come true and he's shown me a sign that you are indeed a cheater! I hope she was worth it"

Me: "ok let's not get crazy here, there was not even a chance I was alone with someone there's a 1000 people here.  Please just relax I'll call you soon"

She: ":)on't bother, delete my number have a nice life!  I knew you were a cheater you @sshole!"

I didn't text back after that and haven't heard back, she deleted me off of her instagram and linked in.  It's been about a day now... .

At this stage, I'm not sure if I want her to call back.  And I'm kind of hurt at the same time. 
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« Reply #1 on: October 05, 2014, 04:41:03 AM »

Hey man sorry to hear you had to put up with that insensitive nonsense.

Nobody can advise you on what actions you should take.

My only advice is to use this "quiet time" to reflect and think about what is right for YOU.

Best wishes man
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