I don't know how to save our relationship! I love her but she has put me in the "All Bad" group. Saying I stress her out, but she make's me stressed out around her because i can't say or do the right thing(walking on egg shells). I know she hates me with interest at the moment. HELP!
This is so tough.
The first step is accepting the things that are outside your control, that you cannot change.
You don't know how to save your relationship. That is because you can't save your relationship. All you can do is work on your half of it. If she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, you cannot force her.
Any relationship is composed of what both people put into it. It isn't fair, but all you can do is put good things into the relationship from your side. She can and will put good or bad things in from her side. You can't stop her from doing things that break your heart.
If you think it is hopeless now that you've read this far, I understand. Please keep reading!
Here is your best chance to save your relationship. Save yourself. Take good care of yourself. As they say on airplanes, put your own oxygen mask on first before assisting others. Do things that you enjoy. Do things that matter to you. Make time for your family and your other friends.
And continue to offer love and support to her, when she is receptive, and when you sincerely feel it. Chasing her and being rejected by her is pretty toxic when it becomes a pattern. It tears you down, and encourages bad behavior on her part at the same time.
This really will make a HUGE difference for you, I guarantee it. And building yourself up to that point of strength is your best chance to save the relationship.
Hang in there... .and please keep posting here when you can. It really does help.
GK