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Here i am getting in the zone to work with my wife y'all better be ready for a million questions... .
she got her diag last night and is very accepting and positive
will fill in more details later as out at work at the moment
but im looking forward to giving our 4 yr rel the best chance we deserve
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Quote from: mitatsu on July 14, 2015, 04:26:28 AM
Here i am getting in the zone to work with my wife y'all better be ready for a million questions... .
she got her diag last night and is very accepting and positive
will fill in more details later as out at work at the moment
but im looking forward to giving our 4 yr rel the best chance we deserve
Best of luck to you guys, i'll give whatever help or advice i can
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Hi Mitatsu,
Welcome to Staying. The lessons on the right will help you get started with improving your relationship.
Looking forward to your questions.
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Hi mitatsu,
the willingness to acknowledge the possibility of a break-up can be a significant boost to your ability to stay.
Check out the LESSONS and join into the conversations. It takes a while to "get" the staying POV and relate it to your own situation. An active exchange on the board can accelerate learning a lot.
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