Hi pfeiffer6,
often over time boundaries erode. Then some crisis or a lack of energy on our side and all hell breaks loose. What seemed manageable becomes overwhelming .
Rage almost always has good support in lack of boundaries. Please read up in the LESSONS on how exactly to implement boundaries in a way to decrease the tension and not feeding it. Also read up on communication skills - a lot depends on how you communicate and little depends on what you communicate.
But first and foremost - take good care of yourself. These relationships can be exhausting
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a0