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Title: Needless suffering Post by: Perfidy on January 09, 2014, 10:50:55 PM Years? Really? I am almost there. I know I haven't detached completely. I'm very close. It's been almost ten months. I get it now. I cared. It meant a lot to me. I loved her. I would have gone to hell and back for her. I would have given my life if it would have made a difference.
THAT WAS ME. I'm good with that. I did the best I could and I'm a caring, loving person. Guess how I figured this out. If you can't guess pm me and I'll tell you. It seems to be a big secret. The relief... . It's like having a fence post taken out of my a$$. Title: Re: Needless suffering Post by: myself on January 09, 2014, 11:37:54 PM You admitted it, accepted it, and felt ahhh?
Title: Re: Needless suffering Post by: Perfidy on January 09, 2014, 11:50:42 PM I'm accepting it. It feels good. Fn life goes on
Title: Re: Needless suffering Post by: Perfidy on January 10, 2014, 12:47:37 AM You admitted it, accepted it, and felt ahhh? Pretty much Title: Re: Needless suffering Post by: seeking balance on January 10, 2014, 12:49:11 AM Title: Re: Needless suffering Post by: Perfidy on January 10, 2014, 12:52:24 AM life goes on yep, it certainly does |iiii [/quote It's a choice. I know where I'm coming from. Title: Re: Needless suffering Post by: Perfidy on January 10, 2014, 12:53:35 AM Lets go into the desert, and party!
Title: Re: Needless suffering Post by: heartandwhole on January 10, 2014, 10:45:35 AM You realized that you are much more than this body/mind thing that moves in space, that nothing can touch your inherent perfection, that your true nature transcends thought, feeling, and physical pleasure/pain, all the while expressing the infinite creativity in each of those ways? :)
C'mon perfidy, give us the carrot! Title: Re: Needless suffering Post by: Perfidy on January 10, 2014, 11:34:27 AM Problems and solutions. Stay in the problem or find the solution. A choice.
Getting her completely out of my life is the solution. The rest will take care of itself. Title: Re: Needless suffering Post by: heartandwhole on January 10, 2014, 01:09:41 PM Problems and solutions. Stay in the problem or find the solution. A choice. Getting her completely out of my life is the solution. The rest will take care of itself. I like that! |iiii Title: Re: Needless suffering Post by: babyspook on January 10, 2014, 01:21:25 PM Problems and solutions. Stay in the problem or find the solution. A choice. Getting her completely out of my life is the solution. The rest will take care of itself. Agreed! I came to that conclusion a while back. I even backed off quite a bit from visiting this site so much because I'd find myself glued to it at times, reading everyone else's horror stories and re-experiencing their misery all over again. It kinda made me feel like I was back there again. That's not moving forward. Title: Re: Needless suffering Post by: myself on January 10, 2014, 02:12:44 PM Glad to hear it, Perfidy. I am in the same kind of boat, finding more acceptance every day. It's encouraging to know there's land in sight.
Title: Re: Needless suffering Post by: Perfidy on January 10, 2014, 02:26:38 PM Myself, exactly. Land in sight. Rumination=depression. Never understood this until recently.
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