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Title: Hello. i am new here Post by: I am a Child of God on April 04, 2014, 12:29:43 AM I am here to heal. It is good to see others with simiar stories. I have a mother with BPD. I have had no contact for almost 3 years. The best descion of my life and I am 37 years old. I am looking forward to healing more.
Title: Re: hello. i am new here Post by: scallops on April 04, 2014, 09:05:30 AM Dear I am a Child of God
I want to welcome you to the family. I am glad you have found us here. When I first found this site a year and a half ago I was in crisis with my dd16 but we all have come a long way since then. When a family member has BPD, the illness can negatively affect everyone in the family system, including children, siblings, and in-laws. Senior members on the [L5] Coping and Healing from a BPD Parent, Sibling, or Inlaw (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?board=7.0) board are experienced with and can help you with setting boundaries, finding relief from FOG, encouraging self-care, improving your handling of relationships impacted by your BPD relative, and pursuing a path of recovery from traumatic experiences. The validation, information, and support will give you strength on your journey. I want to encourge to read the articles associated with that board. I found that the more I understood this disorder the best I could deal with it and the less frustrated and hurt I was too... . keep posting... . Title: Re: hello. i am new here Post by: AsianSon on April 04, 2014, 04:25:03 PM Hi I am a Child of God,
You sound strong and confident--good for you! And you are definitely not alone. I have chosen to remain in contact with my uBPD mother, and so I find great help from this site. Peace to us all! Title: Re: Hello. i am new here Post by: Jenniferhurts on April 13, 2014, 05:06:56 PM Hi, I have sort of a weird question from your user name. Are you mormon? I've just been looking for some other lds people who have dealt with having a BPD parent
Title: Re: Hello. i am new here Post by: Comfrey on April 14, 2014, 04:03:53 PM Hi, I have sort of a weird question from your user name. Are you mormon? I've just been looking for some other lds people who have dealt with having a BPD parent Hi Jenniferhurts- I have just joined this forum, and I am LDS. I've been actively dealing with an abusive mother for about 30 years. I'm just coming to understand that she is most likely a BPD parent. (Classic symptoms). I'd be happy to visit with you, either on the forum or via private message. Best of everything to you. :) |