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Title: There is life. Post by: peiper on October 28, 2014, 01:48:12 AM I didn't know what I was going to do after my exBPD left. The reality is six months after her leaving I met a beautiful lady on here, who understands all of this. Unlike my friends I've tried to talk to. So there is life out there after going through hell.
Title: Re: There is life. Post by: Startattoo2 on October 28, 2014, 03:38:32 AM Good to hear.
Hoping that I find somebody who is better than my BPD ex. Title: Re: There is life. Post by: camuse on October 28, 2014, 04:44:37 AM Good to hear. Hoping that I find somebody who is better than my BPD ex. Anyone who doesn't have a PD is basically better than your BPD ex :) Title: Re: There is life. Post by: peiper on October 28, 2014, 04:50:45 AM Good to hear. Hoping that I find somebody who is better than my BPD ex. Anyone who doesn't have a PD is basically better than your BPD ex :) No truer words were ever spoken ! Title: Re: There is life. Post by: Deeno02 on October 28, 2014, 06:31:38 AM Maybe BPD family should start a dating site! lol
Title: Re: There is life. Post by: Pieter2 on October 28, 2014, 06:46:12 AM Good to hear. Hoping that I find somebody who is better than my BPD ex. Anyone who doesn't have a PD is basically better than your BPD ex :) No truer words were ever spoken ! Anyone who either has a: 1. Calm persona 2. Ounce of integrity 3. Speck of empathy 4. Gram of dignity and respect for others 5. an opinion that stays the same, or 6. even just a heartbeat is better than my ex! lol Title: Re: There is life. Post by: camuse on October 28, 2014, 06:47:58 AM This was a genuine realisation I had when I worried I wouldn't be able to meet anyone as good as my ex (still in the fog, a while back).
I thought, I will have to downgrade, I won't find anyone as hot as her. Then I realised, almost anyone would be an "upgrade" from a BPD :) regardless of "hotness" - simply anyone not mentally ill will be an upgrade. The only way is up lol Title: Re: There is life. Post by: Infared on October 28, 2014, 10:36:37 AM I am enjoying the relationship with myself... .hiking with friends, motorcycling... .pouring myself in to my photography and just building new relationships with in my workplace and beyond. I can pursue all of these interests that I have (financially and time investment), in a way that I never could if in a relationship. Not even looking around or interested in any dating after what I have been through... .but yes... .there is life. Lots of it!
Title: Re: There is life. Post by: fred6 on October 28, 2014, 01:02:15 PM Maybe BPD family should start a dating site! lol Ha, ha, ha. Might have to start a sister support site after that. bpdfamilydatingsupport.com Title: Re: There is life. Post by: Deeno02 on October 28, 2014, 01:16:45 PM Maybe BPD family should start a dating site! lol Ha, ha, ha. Might have to start a sister support site after that. bpdfamilydatingsupport.com Why not! We can help ourselves, while helping ourselves... .lol |