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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: sun seeker on April 13, 2015, 12:12:59 PM



Title: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: sun seeker on April 13, 2015, 12:12:59 PM
 Hey all

I had an amazing date with a NON sunday  :) it was supposed to be a quick meet for a drink and turned into 6 hour conversation. And not a single  red-flag

This woman has her stuff together bachelor's in criminal justs and she is drop dead gorgeous and we had dam near everything in common. We both take care of our elderly parent same taste in music, both are over games and b.s. etc etc.  I wasnt the only one talking about what im into.(refreshing). . Have another date this weekend she has never ridden a sportbike and you know thats going to happen this weekend. Wish me luck all she is pretty bada*s.  |iiii


Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: Hope0807 on April 13, 2015, 12:14:38 PM
Good luck!


Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: mitatsu on April 13, 2015, 12:28:02 PM
Sportsbike = motorcycle?

Good news indeed 


Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: newtothis28 on April 13, 2015, 12:30:33 PM
  have a great time!


Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: Tim300 on April 13, 2015, 12:32:11 PM
Good luck.  Have fun.  I am now just over 6 months out of my devastating broken engagement with a pwBPD (whom I had known for more than 10 years and am now NC with {for life}).  For at least the first 3 months out I was at my wits end -- the worst place I had been in my life, without contest.  I am now as good as I have ever been.  Hang in there people.  When you are out of the fog and able to fully understand BPD for what it is, and have picked up the pieces of your social life, job, etc., you will feel as good as ever -- and stronger than ever!  We (nons) are all very lucky not to suffer from this devastating psychological illness -- be grateful for that.


Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: DyingLove on April 13, 2015, 12:55:40 PM
Hey all

I had an amazing date with a NON sunday  :) it was supposed to be a quick meet for a drink and turned into 6 hour conversation. And not a single  red-flag

This woman has her stuff together bachelor's in criminal justs and she is drop dead gorgeous and we had dam near everything in common. We both take care of our elderly parent same taste in music, both are over games and b.s. etc etc.  I wasnt the only one talking about what im into.(refreshing). . Have another date this weekend she has never ridden a sportbike and you know thats going to happen this weekend. Wish me luck all she is pretty bada*s.  |iiii

That is GREAT NEWS!   I'm jealous!  LOL  No better way to get crap out of your mind than to engage with the opposite sex!  AND NO RED FLAGS!  ;-)  We want all the details! (just kidding)


Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: LeonVa on April 13, 2015, 01:10:12 PM
 |iiii . Wish you the best! You deserve the best!


Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: sun seeker on April 13, 2015, 01:56:52 PM
    Thank you all so much.

All of you on this boar

re amazing people. Ive received more supprt from complete strangers than anyone else. . Freaking amazing. There are still good people in this world. 

 

Sportbike = motorcycle . Mint condition 1998 suzuki tl 1000r. Last of the vtwin  s.r.a.d superbikes.

We all deserve happiness and we can achieve this because we all know the rules here , just have to live by them and we all can have a peaceful life.

A special thanks to

Tim you said it my friend.  |iiii

Dying lol I have followed your story and you are doing great my friend keep it up !

Hope you are saint like I read many people thanking you for going above and beyond.

Mitatsu you are a very strong person dont ever change my friend!

Newto keep that positive vibe it is so helpfull to every one especially for you. 

leonva thank you im not familar with your story but im sure it just like the rest of us. Wish you the best as well



Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: 4kidz on April 13, 2015, 02:09:31 PM
good for you. Enjoy it all... .


Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: PaintedBlack28 on April 13, 2015, 03:01:38 PM
Damn I'm so happy to read news like this... ask her if she has a sister lol


Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: DyingLove on April 13, 2015, 04:01:12 PM
sun seeker you have got to be on top of the world right now.  Well if not, you certainly make it sound GREAT!  LOL   You deserve all the best, you are always there for everyone, and your suggestions and "words of wisdom" are always good and inspiring. A lot of us need to talk and "get" from others... .You listen and "give" to others quite often.  This doesn't go un-noticed.  Just like us, you have your rollercoaster ride... .I will try to always be there for ya my friend as you have for me and others.  :-)


Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: ReclaimingMyLife on April 13, 2015, 11:07:18 PM
This is absolutely wonderful news!  Thanks for sharing b/c I am going to follow your lead. Awesome!


Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: Sunfl0wer on April 13, 2015, 11:17:26 PM
Great stuff!  |iiii


Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: Left broken and confused on April 13, 2015, 11:35:55 PM
This gives us all so much hope .Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I also have a date and I am hoping it goes half as well as yours did. Last date I was so afraid and looking for  red-flag  that as soon as he said his name I said to myself yup he has BPD and got out asap lol


Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: Tim300 on April 13, 2015, 11:52:57 PM
as soon as he said his name I said to myself yup he has BPD and got out asap lol

ha!


Title: Re: There is life after a BPD R/S
Post by: Tibbles on April 15, 2015, 12:12:39 AM
That is great - so pleased for you, hope it just keeps getting better n better :)