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« on: April 13, 2015, 12:12:59 PM »
 Hey all

I had an amazing date with a NON sunday  Smiling (click to insert in post) it was supposed to be a quick meet for a drink and turned into 6 hour conversation. And not a single  Red flag/bad  (click to insert in post)

This woman has her stuff together bachelor's in criminal justs and she is drop dead gorgeous and we had dam near everything in common. We both take care of our elderly parent same taste in music, both are over games and b.s. etc etc.  I wasnt the only one talking about what im into.(refreshing). . Have another date this weekend she has never ridden a sportbike and you know thats going to happen this weekend. Wish me luck all she is pretty bada*s.  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #1 on: April 13, 2015, 12:14:38 PM »
Good luck!
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« Reply #2 on: April 13, 2015, 12:28:02 PM »
Sportsbike = motorcycle?

Good news indeed 
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« Reply #3 on: April 13, 2015, 12:30:33 PM »
  have a great time!
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« Reply #4 on: April 13, 2015, 12:32:11 PM »
Good luck.  Have fun.  I am now just over 6 months out of my devastating broken engagement with a pwBPD (whom I had known for more than 10 years and am now NC with {for life}).  For at least the first 3 months out I was at my wits end -- the worst place I had been in my life, without contest.  I am now as good as I have ever been.  Hang in there people.  When you are out of the fog and able to fully understand BPD for what it is, and have picked up the pieces of your social life, job, etc., you will feel as good as ever -- and stronger than ever!  We (nons) are all very lucky not to suffer from this devastating psychological illness -- be grateful for that.
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« Reply #5 on: April 13, 2015, 12:55:40 PM »
Quote from: sun seeker on April 13, 2015, 12:12:59 PM
Hey all

I had an amazing date with a NON sunday  Smiling (click to insert in post) it was supposed to be a quick meet for a drink and turned into 6 hour conversation. And not a single  Red flag/bad  (click to insert in post)

This woman has her stuff together bachelor's in criminal justs and she is drop dead gorgeous and we had dam near everything in common. We both take care of our elderly parent same taste in music, both are over games and b.s. etc etc.  I wasnt the only one talking about what im into.(refreshing). . Have another date this weekend she has never ridden a sportbike and you know thats going to happen this weekend. Wish me luck all she is pretty bada*s.  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)

That is GREAT NEWS!   I'm jealous!  LOL  No better way to get crap out of your mind than to engage with the opposite sex!  AND NO RED FLAGS!  ;-)  We want all the details! (just kidding)
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« Reply #6 on: April 13, 2015, 01:10:12 PM »
 Doing the right thing (click to insert in post) . Wish you the best! You deserve the best!
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« Reply #7 on: April 13, 2015, 01:56:52 PM »
    Thank you all so much.

All of you on this boar

re amazing people. Ive received more supprt from complete strangers than anyone else. . Freaking amazing. There are still good people in this world. 

 

Sportbike = motorcycle . Mint condition 1998 suzuki tl 1000r. Last of the vtwin  s.r.a.d superbikes.

We all deserve happiness and we can achieve this because we all know the rules here , just have to live by them and we all can have a peaceful life.

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Tim you said it my friend.  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)

Dying Laugh out loud (click to insert in post) I have followed your story and you are doing great my friend keep it up !

Hope you are saint like I read many people thanking you for going above and beyond.

Mitatsu you are a very strong person dont ever change my friend!

Newto keep that positive vibe it is so helpfull to every one especially for you. 

leonva thank you im not familar with your story but im sure it just like the rest of us. Wish you the best as well
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« Reply #8 on: April 13, 2015, 02:09:31 PM »
good for you. Enjoy it all... .
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« Reply #9 on: April 13, 2015, 03:01:38 PM »
Damn I'm so happy to read news like this... ask her if she has a sister Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #10 on: April 13, 2015, 04:01:12 PM »
sun seeker you have got to be on top of the world right now.  Well if not, you certainly make it sound GREAT!  LOL   You deserve all the best, you are always there for everyone, and your suggestions and "words of wisdom" are always good and inspiring. A lot of us need to talk and "get" from others... .You listen and "give" to others quite often.  This doesn't go un-noticed.  Just like us, you have your rollercoaster ride... .I will try to always be there for ya my friend as you have for me and others.  :-)
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« Reply #11 on: April 13, 2015, 11:07:18 PM »
This is absolutely wonderful news!  Thanks for sharing b/c I am going to follow your lead. Awesome!
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« Reply #12 on: April 13, 2015, 11:17:26 PM »
Great stuff!  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #13 on: April 13, 2015, 11:35:55 PM »
This gives us all so much hope .Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I also have a date and I am hoping it goes half as well as yours did. Last date I was so afraid and looking for  Red flag/bad  (click to insert in post)  that as soon as he said his name I said to myself yup he has BPD and got out asap Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #14 on: April 13, 2015, 11:52:57 PM »
Quote from: Left broken and confused on April 13, 2015, 11:35:55 PM
as soon as he said his name I said to myself yup he has BPD and got out asap Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

ha!
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« Reply #15 on: April 15, 2015, 12:12:39 AM »
That is great - so pleased for you, hope it just keeps getting better n better Smiling (click to insert in post)
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