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Title: The girl who cried wolf Post by: SummerStorm on October 17, 2015, 02:28:00 PM I hate lying. I absolutely hate it. I'm a teacher and can excuse most of the stupid things that kids do, but lying just gets under my skin.
When I was friends with my former friend BPD, I started to question everything she said. And she did lie about some things. However, I recently found out that she was actually telling the truth about many things I thought she was lying about. This whole situation reminds me of the story "The Boy Who Cried Wolf." She lied about so many other things that I didn't believe her when she was telling the truth. Has anyone else ever discovered that your exBPD was actually telling the truth about things you thought he/she was lying about? Title: Re: The girl who cried wolf Post by: problemsolver on October 17, 2015, 02:35:06 PM Nope... .in my opinion my BPDex basically lives a lie... lied to her ex about me and lied to me about her ex... she was able to keep this lie for 1 full year... .we would both constantly ask "do you talk to him" ... she would say no no no... with a straight face... great actress to be fair
Title: Re: The girl who cried wolf Post by: SummerStorm on October 17, 2015, 02:58:48 PM Nope... .in my opinion my BPDex basically lives a lie... lied to her ex about me and lied to me about her ex... she was able to keep this lie for 1 full year... .we would both constantly ask "do you talk to him" ... she would say no no no... with a straight face... great actress to be fair Oh, mine is definitely a great liar, and she lied about some pretty awful things. But there were things that I had convinced myself that she'd lied about, and she was actually telling the truth. Title: Re: The girl who cried wolf Post by: SamwizeGamgee on October 17, 2015, 08:15:25 PM For me, the feeling that my uBPDw was crying wolf is what alerted me something not being right. I learned not to follow her crazy accusations and attempts at making me guilty of whatever it was going on in her head. It is really tough to keep sane.
Title: Re: The girl who cried wolf Post by: Mutt on October 17, 2015, 09:59:20 PM Hi SummerStorm,
Pathological lying or mythomania can be common with BPD. A pwBPD have difficulties keeping close relationships, fear abandonment and rejection and will do whatever it takes to keep the relationship. Title: Re: The girl who cried wolf Post by: LostGhost on October 17, 2015, 10:24:27 PM Hi SummerStorm, Pathological lying or mythomania can be common with BPD. A pwBPD have difficulties keeping close relationships, fear abandonment and rejection and will do whatever it takes to keep the relationship. Hey mutt, What does it mean when I experienced the opposite, where my BPD ex didn't seem to want to do anything to keep the relationship and was all too happy to terminate it and discard me? Title: Re: The girl who cried wolf Post by: hurting300 on October 17, 2015, 11:14:57 PM Mine lead a double life. So... .
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