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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: unicorn2014 on December 20, 2015, 02:37:47 PM



Title: What kind of rules did you have set up around sex in the relations
Post by: unicorn2014 on December 20, 2015, 02:37:47 PM
What kind of rules or principles did you have set up around sex in the relationship?


Title: What kind of rules did you have set up around sex in the relations
Post by: Lovingme35 on December 20, 2015, 02:56:47 PM
We were in a monogamous relationship. We both enjoyed it a lot and experimented somewhat.


Title: What kind of rules did you have set up around sex in the relations
Post by: unicorn2014 on December 20, 2015, 03:12:20 PM
So what about post breakup rules around sex?


Title: What kind of rules did you have set up around sex in the relations
Post by: Lovingme35 on December 20, 2015, 04:02:32 PM
So what about post breakup rules around sex?

There were none. I would just get questioned repeatedly on if I had been with someone else or not. As I would also question him. This breakup was different.


Title: What kind of rules did you have set up around sex in the relations
Post by: unicorn2014 on December 20, 2015, 04:27:34 PM
Right and you said you had sex with him after the breakup, and he had been with someone else. What I am saying is I think its ok to talk to him and you might really want to watch your boundaries around sex with him if you choose to talk to him again.