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Title: I guess it's time... Post by: Bushido on October 02, 2016, 05:12:09 PM Well... .
I did write a few posts a few months back. Perhaps i should read them before i go on cos I am not the same person i was back then... ... Even just a few months but i sure had to adapt fast. I played my part in this BPD game of hers But now it's just a few things left to fight over. If only the new guy could make her just stop trying to pick a fight with me over just anything. Well... .I just wonder where to begin... . 18 years of this rollercoaster... . And here i am... .@ a new beginning Title: Re: I guess it's time... Post by: Mutt on October 02, 2016, 05:48:33 PM Hi Bushido,
*welcome* Welcome back. Anywhere is a good starting point. What's left to fight over your ex? Title: Re: I guess it's time... Post by: Want2know on October 02, 2016, 07:35:54 PM And here i am... .@ a new beginning A new beginning! Those words sound sweet! What is the first thing you want to do for yourself, putting aside your ex and whatever b.s. she's involved in? Title: Re: I guess it's time... Post by: Bushido on October 09, 2016, 02:46:49 PM well ... .i guess it´s going take some time to unwind from this whole thing.
And i feel like i´m rebooting in so many ways. But this isn´t over yet... Finishing the divorce. . . the kids. . . and just this whole turn around. I feel like talking about it with you guys... . But i have a hard time to put it into words. . let alone where to begin. Title: Re: I guess it's time... Post by: Bushido on October 09, 2016, 02:52:28 PM And here i am... .@ a new beginning A new beginning! Those words sound sweet!What is the first thing you want to do for yourself, putting aside your ex and whatever b.s. she's involved in? and all our finance just collapsed... i don´t know how i did it... .beside being at work 24/7 last summer! and then it´s all the emotional part of this abandonment... .that was no joke ether... But here i am ... . :) just working on how and where to begin... Title: Re: I guess it's time... Post by: VitaminC on October 09, 2016, 02:57:59 PM I feel like talking about it with you guys... . But i have a hard time to put it into words. . let alone where to begin. Talking is good! How about beginning with how you feel right now? Are you sad? Anxious? Relieved? Tired? Confused? Relaxing? Have you moved? How are the kids doing? Have you got friends or family you can talk to and get different kinds of support from? Title: Re: I guess it's time... Post by: Bushido on October 09, 2016, 03:02:55 PM What's left to fight over your ex? well... .as you know... .BPDs don´t need much to start a fight... just the other day i went to give my daughter her schoolbook... and miss ex went into fight mode over a text i didn´t reply... Title: Re: I guess it's time... Post by: Bushido on October 09, 2016, 03:45:54 PM How about beginning with how you feel right now? Are you sad? Anxious? Relieved? Tired? Confused? Relaxing? No... i´m keeping the apartment... .but we are heading in a split share ... .he who has the kids... .stays in the apartment . Excerpt I feel a bit blank... i think Have you moved? I´ve been thru so many and so much emotions that . . . i don´t know. . . time works with me i guess. one day at a time... .just one day at a time... agreement until new year when she gets an a apartment ( in her parents house btw ) Bottom line... .this is their home... .school is close by and this is best for them. Excerpt How are the kids doing? well ... .school called in social service since they worrie about two of my kids. Excerpt Have you got friends or family you can talk to and get different kinds of support from? yes... i doTitle: Re: I guess it's time... Post by: Bushido on October 09, 2016, 04:00:02 PM putting aside your ex and whatever b.s. she's involved in? and yes ... .her b.s is her own... .she has 4 kids and the new bf lives 8 hours away. i don´t care what she does in her own time... she can´t escape reality forever . . . What she plans to do ... .we will see |