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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: CluelessPartner on August 23, 2026, 10:49:43 PM



Title: I'm just so confused
Post by: CluelessPartner on August 23, 2026, 10:49:43 PM
Hi, first time posting here. We haven't officially ended it, but we've had such a turbulent relationship with many near-breakups that I still don't understand, and now we're at our worst after a two-week break from a fight that began from nothing, in my eyes at least. She exploded and dumped all her complaints on me because she read into a harmless text while we were apart for a weekend. I'm used to her grumpy moods and her impulsive travel and excitement. I'm used to her fantasizing about dream houses in other states for a brand-new start. She has an extreme fear of abandonment. But this time she said such mean and hurtful things about me personally, and I don't know if I can get past it. Is it true it will just keep getting worse?