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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Lostinanother on October 11, 2017, 09:09:00 AM



Title: Recovering BPD Addict 2
Post by: Lostinanother on October 11, 2017, 09:09:00 AM
Hi, this is my first post, and it's really an introduction. I don't suppose my story is particularly unique going on what I have read in this forum, and others, over the past 3 months since the break up.

I was blown away by your post. It’s almost as though we dated the same girl.
However, I live in South Korea and my ex is South Korean. We dated for two years. My ex also kept trying to get pregnant by me aswell... .
I’m from Barnet originally. Near to your story.

I’ve been asking all the same questions you asked.
How could she change so quickly?
Was anything she said or did real?
Did she really love me at all?
How many times did she look into my eyes and lie?
All the same questions... .

In the 6 months did she ever try and contact you or apologize?
We broke up at the beginning of August and since that time we have been getting back together, going crazy at each other, blocking and ignoring each other, trying to be friends and now finally tonight, one last nasty argument on the phone and finito... .
Thank you very much for all the advice that you’ve given me because I really feel like we are in the same boat on the same ocean... .