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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: 5min on April 11, 2018, 04:22:26 PM



Title: Breaking Down
Post by: 5min on April 11, 2018, 04:22:26 PM
I can see the mental damage, the breaking down, the loss of memory, the anxiety, the going to a room and not remembering why all from relentless bitching and tearing me down for hours at a time day in and day out, year in and year out. She is not worth this BS.


Title: Re: Breaking Down
Post by: pearlsw on April 11, 2018, 04:57:58 PM
Hi 5min,

What’s going on? Can you tell us more please?

with compassion, pearl.


Title: Re: Breaking Down
Post by: Mutt on April 11, 2018, 09:21:41 PM
Hi 5min,

It helps to talk. What’s going on?


Title: Re: Breaking Down
Post by: Red5 on April 12, 2018, 10:04:58 AM
I can see the mental damage, the breaking down, the loss of memory, the anxiety, the going to a room and not remembering why... .

... .relentless tearing me down for hours at a time day in and day out, year in and year out. She is not worth this BS.
5min,

... .are you there, throw us a line Brother, what's going on?

Red5


Title: Re: Breaking Down
Post by: 5min on April 13, 2018, 08:21:33 AM
Every morning is between 30 min to 2 hrs of tearing me down. Then it continues as she blows up my phone at work. Followed by evening a22 chewings. Every story, every discussion has a point of what I did wrong. Here is how you have ruined my life. Here is how you are the cause of every problem in my life. Onit goes.


Title: Re: Breaking Down
Post by: formflier on April 13, 2018, 10:17:39 AM
Every morning is between 30 min to 2 hrs of tearing me down. Then it continues as she blows up my phone at work. Followed by evening a22 chewings. Every story, every discussion has a point of what I did wrong. Here is how you have ruined my life. Here is how you are the cause of every problem in my life. Onit goes.

Ugg... .  

How do you feel after listening to and being part of these discussions?

How often does something actually get "solved" or "resolved" as part of your participation in these discussions?

Hope to see your responses soon... .I feel confident we can help you find a pathway to a better place... .with less a$$ chewing...   |iiii

FF