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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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« on: April 11, 2018, 04:22:26 PM »

I can see the mental damage, the breaking down, the loss of memory, the anxiety, the going to a room and not remembering why all from relentless bitching and tearing me down for hours at a time day in and day out, year in and year out. She is not worth this BS.
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« Reply #1 on: April 11, 2018, 04:57:58 PM »

Hi 5min,

What’s going on? Can you tell us more please?

with compassion, pearl.
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« Reply #2 on: April 11, 2018, 09:21:41 PM »

Hi 5min,

It helps to talk. What’s going on?
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« Reply #3 on: April 12, 2018, 10:04:58 AM »

I can see the mental damage, the breaking down, the loss of memory, the anxiety, the going to a room and not remembering why... .

... .relentless tearing me down for hours at a time day in and day out, year in and year out. She is not worth this BS.
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... .are you there, throw us a line Brother, what's going on?

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“We are so used to our own history, we do not see it as remarkable or out of the ordinary, whereas others might see it as horrendous. Further, we tend to minimize that which we feel shameful about.” {Quote} Patrick J. Carnes / author,
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« Reply #4 on: April 13, 2018, 08:21:33 AM »

Every morning is between 30 min to 2 hrs of tearing me down. Then it continues as she blows up my phone at work. Followed by evening a22 chewings. Every story, every discussion has a point of what I did wrong. Here is how you have ruined my life. Here is how you are the cause of every problem in my life. Onit goes.
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« Reply #5 on: April 13, 2018, 10:17:39 AM »

Every morning is between 30 min to 2 hrs of tearing me down. Then it continues as she blows up my phone at work. Followed by evening a22 chewings. Every story, every discussion has a point of what I did wrong. Here is how you have ruined my life. Here is how you are the cause of every problem in my life. Onit goes.

Ugg... .  

How do you feel after listening to and being part of these discussions?

How often does something actually get "solved" or "resolved" as part of your participation in these discussions?

Hope to see your responses soon... .I feel confident we can help you find a pathway to a better place... .with less a$$ chewing...   Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)

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