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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: marv1995 on September 04, 2021, 10:10:09 PM



Title: He moved across the country.
Post by: marv1995 on September 04, 2021, 10:10:09 PM
It’s been over a month since we’ve split up. We haven’t spoke except for the short convo a week ago when he apologized and said he would send me back all the gifts I gave him (he didn’t, my therapist said this was just an excuse to reach out). Most days I feel okay. Today, he officially moved across the country to go to culinary school. From Texas to New York. It was a rough week. I was supposed to be up there with him, helping him move in. He’s officially almost 2000 miles away from me. I hurt, but I also feel peace.


Title: Re: He moved across the country.
Post by: Cant breathe on September 08, 2021, 07:29:50 PM
I am sorry and I understand how you feel.


Title: Re: He moved across the country.
Post by: Dad50 on September 08, 2021, 08:34:51 PM
Why would you want the gifts back that you gave someone?


Title: Re: He moved across the country.
Post by: Woolspinner2000 on September 08, 2021, 08:43:12 PM
Take it one day at a time, marv1995. I can only imagine how you're grieving.

Are you able to do any self care?

 :hug:
Wools


Title: Re: He moved across the country.
Post by: marv1995 on October 19, 2021, 02:22:22 PM
Why would you want the gifts back that you gave someone?

Just seeing this, Dad. I didn't want them back, I told him to keep them. He randomly texted me saying he was going to send them back.