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It’s been over a month since we’ve split up. We haven’t spoke except for the short convo a week ago when he apologized and said he would send me back all the gifts I gave him (he didn’t, my therapist said this was just an excuse to reach out). Most days I feel okay. Today, he officially moved across the country to go to culinary school. From Texas to New York. It was a rough week. I was supposed to be up there with him, helping him move in. He’s officially almost 2000 miles away from me. I hurt, but I also feel peace.
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I am sorry and I understand how you feel.
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Why would you want the gifts back that you gave someone?
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Quote from: Dad50 on September 08, 2021, 08:34:51 PM
Why would you want the gifts back that you gave someone?
Just seeing this, Dad. I didn't want them back, I told him to keep them. He randomly texted me saying he was going to send them back.
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