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« on: September 05, 2010, 08:50:35 PM »

Pop Rock Star "Pink" has openly talked about her addiction to booze, being Bi Polar and BPD BUT works it out in positive manners...most of her songs relate the demons she fights every day of her life. PLEASE read this one...it hit home and often wondered why my ex would listen to it all the time without saying a word to me:

It's All Your Fault lyrics

I conjure up the thought of being gone

But I'd probably even do that wrong

I try to think about which way

Would I be able to and would I be afraid

Cause oh I'm bleeding out inside

Oh I don't even mind (Yeah)

It's all your fault

You called me beautiful

You turned me out

And now I can't turn back

I hold my breath

Because you were perfect

But I'm running out of air

And it's not fair

Da da dada da dada da

Da dadadadadada da dadadadadada

I'm trying to figure out what else to say (What else could I say)

To make you turn around and come back this way (Would you just come back this way)

I feel like we could be really awesome together

So make up your mind cause it's now or never (oh)

It's all your fault

You called me beautiful

You turned me out

And now I can't turn back

I hold my breath

Because you were perfect

But I'm running out of air

And it's not fair

I would never pull the trigger

But I've cried wolf a thousand times

I wish you could

Feel as bad as I do

I have lost my mind

It's all your fault

You called me beautiful

You turned me out

And now I can't turn back

I hold (I hold) my breath (My breath)

Because you were perfect

But I'm running out of air (running out of air)

And it's not fair

(Oh yeah

It's all your fault)

I hold my breath

Because you were perfect

But I'm running out of air

And it's not (It's not) fair

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« Reply #1 on: September 05, 2010, 10:54:51 PM »

Pinks song 'Please Don't Leave me' was like my exBPDgf's anthem!  Something about Pink's music that really hits home!

I don't know if I can yell any louder

How many time I've kicked you outta here?

Or said something insulting?

Da da da, da da

I can be so mean when I wanna be

I am capable of really anything

I can cut you into pieces

But my heart is broken

Da da da, da da

Please don't leave me

Please don't leave me

I always say how I don't need you

But it's always gonna come right back to this

Please, don't leave me

How did I become so obnoxious?

What is it with you that makes me act like this?

I've never been this nasty

Da da da, da da

Can't you tell that this is all just a contest?

The one that wins will be the one that hits the hardest

But baby I don't mean it

I mean it, I promise

Da da da, da da

Please don't leave me

Oh please don't leave me

I always say how I don't need you

But it's always gonna come right back to this

Please, don't leave me

I forgot to say out loud how beautiful you really are to me

I cannot be without, you're my perfect little punching bag

And I need you, I'm sorry

Da da da, da da

Da da da da, da da da da

Da da da, da da

Please, please don't leave me

(Da da da, da da)

Baby please don't leave me

(Da da da, da da)

No, don't leave me

Please don't leave me no no no

You say I don't need you

But it's always gonna come right back

It's gonna come right back to this

Please, don't leave me

Please don't leave me, oh no no no.

I always say how I don't need you

But it's always gonna come right back to this

Please don't leave me

Baby, please, please don't leave me
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