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For me it has lasted 5 years and a 3 years old which she planed 89% sure of it and still using this little kitten to get to me...

any feedback ?

She has been chasing and contacting you for 5 years?

Huh?

Yep we were friends ( with benefits) even though i had quite good boundaries than ,i made it clear, I now see red flags that i didn't see then. But like i told the cops once after he ask why i was so concerned of her and kept going back to her pleads, fake and manipulative, i answered" a friend don't let a friend down" little did i know i was in a though ride.  Sometime, most of the time i wonder if i, by the way i put her down, even though she was hooked tome, maybe it is me the reason she became like this. Because she didn't always black me out but over valued me and just constantly staring at me, wanted to do best for me but then my feelings weren't there. Now if only i knew , i feel terrible for her and for what it couldn't be.

Have you maintained contact with her or has she just been texting you these 5 years?

Of course i kept swing her telling her 2 years ago i was madly in love then on an off r/s now 5 months n/c from my part :'(

Slap yourself man, you are doing NC good! :) This woman was never going to satisfy your needs. She had issues, you could'nt be her medicine, you're just a man, you can't cure her. There are other girls out there who will treat you right. Have you figured out why you were so attracted to that night-mare? BPD women  are not fit for any LTR ever. Stay strong dude!

Thank Gleen, i know,i know but didn't we all feel at some point that even us have taken advantage of them ? I did but not to use her, but because i just did !

merci !

By the way, what does LTR  means?

LTR means long-term relationship. I will say it again. They are  not fit for an LTR. They are too damaged. Once you take your garbage to the curb, leave it there. Do you feel you owe her? What gives? This is about YOU. What are you going to do?

Bin oui c sur ! But my rational me knows i don't owe her f#ck all . I'm gonna keep moving on, it's been a great week,filled with acceptances and peace in me .

Love it! Rofl, ditto.