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Crisis: Romantic relation near or in break-up mode
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Who should post here? BPDFamily 1 3625 Last post December 07, 2015, 04:45:00 AM
by BPDFamily
Lessons BPDFamily 4 3922 Last post December 07, 2015, 04:36:01 AM
by BPDFamily
We'll see how this plays out after she has seen Mr Wonderful in person in July « 1 2  All » Pedro 11 140 Last post May 23, 2017, 02:15:47 AM
by Pedro
After Five Month No Contact we are Back Working Well but big Trigger today... JaneD 2 71 Last post May 22, 2017, 08:36:00 PM
by JaneD
Where do I draw the line believer55 6 214 Last post May 22, 2017, 08:30:22 PM
by believer55
Looking for advice boothbear 1 45 Last post May 22, 2017, 08:15:19 PM
by colinw617
GF called after 3 days of NC; wants clean break. Owlsign 3 52 Last post May 22, 2017, 03:18:09 PM
by insideout77
Can/should I send this email?? Might be wrong board... Ox 2 34 Last post May 22, 2017, 03:03:33 PM
by Ox
HELP! I know how it works, I dont know what to do! Dylanferr 0 17 Last post May 22, 2017, 02:43:10 PM
by Dylanferr
Tips for BPD communication Circular 3 26 Last post May 22, 2017, 01:59:56 PM
by Meili
Need some advice ASAP « 1 2  All » RyanC5686 15 239 Last post May 22, 2017, 12:26:19 PM
by Meili
What to do Ferguson22 3 43 Last post May 22, 2017, 11:04:47 AM
by Ferguson22
Intro Circular 5 44 Last post May 21, 2017, 08:41:28 PM
by Mutt
Confused notdefeated 1 29 Last post May 21, 2017, 09:34:06 AM
by gotbushels
Hoping you all can help. SurvivingBP17 1 33 Last post May 20, 2017, 07:37:13 PM
by SurvivingBP17
Does BPD = emotional abuse? Jej 4 119 Last post May 19, 2017, 04:34:18 PM
by HelenaHandbasket
Nothing she says or does occur to me as "real" anymore CycleBreaker123 1 57 Last post May 19, 2017, 03:03:33 PM
by GD39
Struggling to cope with stress/ guilt Iris8 0 26 Last post May 19, 2017, 02:54:28 PM
by Iris8
Possible Recycle...? myselfandi 1 34 Last post May 19, 2017, 12:51:00 PM
by allienoah
BPD's distorted reality and feeling very tired « 1 2 3 4  All » onelittleladybug 39 724 Last post May 19, 2017, 09:35:46 AM
by onelittleladybug
Happy Mothers Day DesertBloom 4 53 Last post May 19, 2017, 09:25:48 AM
by Mutt
Please help!! Does this sound like a BPD girlfriend and will she come back? RyanC5686 5 160 Last post May 19, 2017, 03:30:35 AM
by Austin53
Newly broken up. BowieFan 2 70 Last post May 18, 2017, 11:28:02 PM
by BowieFan
My gf was diagnosed a few months ago Amartin47 4 39 Last post May 18, 2017, 10:41:53 PM
by Amartin47
Almost relationship.... confused Blue621 5 120 Last post May 18, 2017, 09:49:55 PM
by Turkish
Is it possible that she reserves her "normal" self just for new people? CycleBreaker123 3 56 Last post May 18, 2017, 04:45:57 PM
by Meili
MOVED: Unhappy wife (fiance), unhappy life... Lollypop 0 22 Last post May 18, 2017, 04:38:35 PM
by Lollypop
I Raged GD39 1 23 Last post May 18, 2017, 04:37:31 PM
by GD39
Girlfriend with BPD , keeps running off to do drugs. Help needed how to help her BDarry 1 17 Last post May 18, 2017, 03:58:21 PM
by Meili
I want her to understand where I was in this relationship « 1 2 3 4  All » Pedro 33 372 Last post May 18, 2017, 03:06:19 PM
by Pedro
Advice on asking to give it another chance ACP 6 224 Last post May 17, 2017, 08:25:11 PM
by ACP
Love of my life dx. 9 months ago Keepingreal 8 179 Last post May 17, 2017, 03:51:49 PM
by Keepingreal
Keeps breaking me ACP 1 34 Last post May 17, 2017, 10:05:15 AM
by Meili
Raising my kid alone since birth and she popped up after a year SingleDaddyO 3 39 Last post May 16, 2017, 04:14:01 PM
by SingleDaddyO
divorce is about to happen and i just discovered BPD « 1 2 3  All » butterflylove 23 339 Last post May 15, 2017, 09:50:29 PM
by butterflylove
Bpd herion relationship help Scatterbrained 1 25 Last post May 15, 2017, 03:39:38 PM
by Scatterbrained
MOVED: wanting to learn more Lollypop 0 17 Last post May 15, 2017, 06:10:10 AM
by Lollypop
Is it possible to be happy after living with BPD husband for 45 years? Roxzan 2 59 Last post May 15, 2017, 12:08:27 AM
by stayingsteady
Hard to believe joyblade 1 54 Last post May 14, 2017, 10:35:25 PM
by stayingsteady
How to de-escalate an argument?? TheMaskDropped 1 49 Last post May 14, 2017, 07:53:27 PM
by stayingsteady
How can I convince her (uBPD wife) to seek professional help? verytired 1 62 Last post May 14, 2017, 07:24:20 PM
by stayingsteady
Relationship Advice monkey428 1 46 Last post May 14, 2017, 04:45:10 PM
by stayingsteady
To confide in friend what my marriage is like? Happy outside 8 105 Last post May 14, 2017, 10:39:44 AM
by Ox
I'm his trigger.. Scarletstar 3 92 Last post May 14, 2017, 09:59:48 AM
by TheMaskDropped
Four year relationship over cat31203120 1 46 Last post May 14, 2017, 09:56:18 AM
by gotbushels
Just Commited BPD husband to treatment center after suicide attempt - now what? Pato 1 36 Last post May 14, 2017, 09:49:04 AM
by gotbushels
We broke up suddenly, and only after this I knew about BDP « 1 2  All » Lucy_I 12 164 Last post May 13, 2017, 02:10:36 PM
by Gemsforeyes
Need some advice and comfort in my situation l3ontakun 2 52 Last post May 12, 2017, 09:49:01 PM
by Gemsforeyes
My ex has invited me to tattoo convention « 1 2 ... 5 6 » Pedro 59 497 Last post May 11, 2017, 12:32:35 AM
by Pedro
I need help and guidance, just determine my wife is BPD IrishGerman 1 48 Last post May 10, 2017, 02:08:10 PM
by Mutt
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