My sister is 47 and has "terrorized" our family for most of it. She has gotten worse as her life has not gone her way (divorce, numerous jobs, failed relationships). She always focused most of her angst on my mom or her husband. He left, my mom got Alzheimer's (20 years of it), so she focused it on me. She can't focus it on my dad because he pays the bills. For the past 10-15 years, I have dealt with her rages and no apology reconciliations but after she turned my mother's funeral week this summer into a complete psychotic farce, I chose to not speak to her. We text about my dad (he has Parkinson's) and she still sends the occasional "
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