well its been a busy couple months. Was away from the fun and games for a ... was nice to be away from the fog and BPD shenanigans. Applied for a job while away and had the interview when I got back. Was offered the job the same day
Went away again last weekend for my nephews memorial and started the new job the day after I got back.
Opened a checking account and got a credit card in my own name.
Been sleeping on the couch for a month and stopped having sex with him 2 months ago... .been avoiding it since I decided to leave 6 months ago.
He just thinks I'm "punishing" him for something.
I have explained WHY I don't want to have sex... but like everything else... .doesn't listen.
The other day when I AGAIN explained... he said maybe HE should just leave and leave me the house and bills and move to live with his aging parents.
Funny when he doesn't get his needs met it's a problem... .yet I'm not even supposed to HAVE needs.
Saving money and sorting through stuff before I confirmed I'm leaving... .I KNOW it won't be pretty.
Another trip away planned for next month... .staying out of the FOG