i need to communicate very clearly with her about how she's made me feel and how I would approach any relationship with her from this point forward.
tread lightly.
its not my thing, personally, but open relationships, in this day and age, are not only becoming a popular thing, but relatively normal, even. and its, increasingly, something that a lot of couples, in similar situations, or very different situations, argue about.
it was a hurtful notion for you. i dont want to diminish that. but at the same time, she may feel shut down by the conversation. it could have been a test. it could have been a sincere inquiry.