Hey J4needssupport!
I know.she needs help. I also know i cant fix her, she has to work on herself. So i continue to work on my own well beimg and tell her i am here when she wants to talk.
This is a very important realization. Even with the best of intentions, the most growth in the world on your end, you cannot change someone else.
I am sympathic to her lack of sleep and frustrstion. Am i fooling myselfnthst this can work better?
I think the answer to this depends on you and your mindset. What are the limitations of your own understanding, patience, willingness to compromise?
The marriahe has been rocky but always had periods of happiness that outweighed the rough spots.
What did your last rough spot look like?
Hard part.is for almost 2.months she comes home.and goes to her room our former.guest room and doesnt engsge with me unless we absolutely have to.
Could you give us an example of when you have tried engaging with her? What was the context? What happened?