I'm always wrong and I'm trying my best to understand what he is going through. He has been sober almost 10 months now and things in our relationship are weird I know soberity brings a lot of new emotions up. But lately he just isn't happy and always bothered or upset about something especially the tiny things. I try my best to just listen and understand what I can I do a lot of biting my tongue and keeping my mouth shut. Any advice on how to make things maybe happier or easier.
Hi Cassie,
Just wanting to say welcome here. Great questions here. Sobriety is a wrinkle in the mix as well. People in recovery have been known to display borderline traits even if their issues are rooted in other things.
So along with J's advice, I would suggest looking into an Al-Anon group (for families) in your area.
Hang in there.
Reach out any time.
Rev