Hi Wantmoreson,
I'm very sorry to hear of your recent struggles with your husband and daughter. That is so hard to deal with, and I understand feeling overwhelmed. I certainly would feel that way in your shoes.
I'm glad you reached out, because you've found a wonderful place for support. The members here are, or have been, in similar situations and understand what you are going through. The site also has tons of tools and resources to make things better. There IS hope, Wantmoreson. You are not alone.
How is your other daughter dealing with this?
Do you have supportive friends and/or extended family whom you can lean on right now?
Keep posting. It helps to share. We're here for you.
heartandwhole