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One Year - or so - since my 1st post - ♫ cha..cha..changes...
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So its been about a year or so since my last post. What has changed.
I dont communicate with them
She called me saying her cat died.. I ignored her, like her cat ignored her.
I am much happier.
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So great to see the "reflecting/looking back" posts on these boards. I couldn't help but
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I ignored her, like her cat ignored her.
Wrong? maybe? well... I still
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Do you think that you 1 year ago would be surprised at you in the present? Would have believe you would be where you're at? Curious to know.
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Quote from: kells76 on August 13, 2021, 09:36:31 AM
So great to see the "reflecting/looking back" posts on these boards. I couldn't help but
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Wrong? maybe? well... I still
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Do you think that you 1 year ago would be surprised at you in the present? Would have believe you would be where you're at? Curious to know.
I never expected I would be in this position. I never knew she would do this to me. She has 4 cats. 3 cats love me. One cat is a loner. But this cat loved her mom (she died when I 1st met her) He always looks so sad..
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Hi it sounds like a year gone by has done some good. I know its not been easy so.well done.
Would you say you feel stronger emotionally today than you were 6 months ago?
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Hi it sounds like a year gone by has done some good. I know its not been easy so.well done.
Would you say you feel stronger emotionally today than you were 6 months ago?
I dont know to be honest. Im on the fence I think. I dont want to sound too positive because it will backfire on me
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