Silent Treatment

[LaPerla075]

Silent treatment/Anti Perla Campaign/ Perla painted in black

I sent this letter to my boyfriend today. I found out he was dating someone else and he was very abusive and is giving me a silence treatment.

Do u think this is going to help him?

I never experienced this situation before. I have read about silent treatment and I get into the conclusion that no matter what you have in you mind at moment. Silent treatment severely damages relationships. It destroys trust, goodwill, and the ability to resolve issues in a timely fashion.

I know you are angry. I feel you. However, pushing people buttons not talking  to get evidence later the person been clingy / needy / jealous/ stalker-type to make the person to feel guilty it is totally not cool. ☹ Its forcing people responses and I wont allow anyone to do this to me.

 I am not any of the above. I am exceptionally good person, trustworthy, kind, forgiven … So good that people use me and take me for granted 

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 LaPerla07

 

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Point of clarity:  Is below what you sent to your pwBPD? 

I know you are angry. I feel you. However, pushing people buttons not talking  to get evidence later the person been clingy / needy / jealous/ stalker-type to make the person to feel guilty it is totally not cool. ☹ Its forcing people responses and I wont allow anyone to do this to me.

Have they responded?

Best,

FF