Rinse Recycle Repeat

[Loveofhislife]

Now I get it! For an entire year, he went into tirades about amicable relationships I have with my ex husband, my business partner, etc. I mean every single day and sometimes included waiters who were nice to me or business colleagues. Ranting and raving no matter how many times I swore my fidelity and loyalty. At first I though he's really insecure (which he is); he's really jealous (which he is); he's a cheater himself (which he was and maybe is); AND... .MAYBE HE WAS/IS PROJECTING! Ya think? Now that I've learned all about the recycle game from this board it struck me why he was so upset about ANCIENT HISTORY relationships of mine--because NOTHING AND NO ONE IS ANCIENT HISTORY for them! The bench is always full and anyone who ever was in their life is a prime candidate for a recycle! 

[mitchell16]

I never thought about this but i does make sense. why my was alwasy so jealous of every women from my past. some who i havent seen in 2o years but will get an occasional phone call from just telling me hi and see how im doing. we are just friends. BUt I would be confused cause she staryed on contact with the exboyfreind before me. So this make sense she knew what she what she could do at any moment.