I had enough of my uBPDgf behavior on the weekend that I walked out the door hopefully for the last time. I won't post the details, as I've already posted it on the undecided forum for anyone who wishes to read it. Let's leave it, that at I've come to the point where I cant take anymore of her selfish games.
So what worries me, is in the 18 months we've been together, we've broken up at least 6 times and like a fool I've taken her back like nothing happened. It doesn't take much more than her to say she really misses me for me to break down and end up repeating the cycle.
I'm worried if and when she calls, it will either trigger a fight or I'll get sucked right back in like before. So how does one overcome not feeling like a jerk by not answering when an ex repeatedly calls and then resorts to banging on the front door?
It's easy, and I wish I learned this lesson 14 years ago.
Sit the next dance out.
You don't have to dance every dance.
Trust me, you can save yourself allot of pain and suffering in the future.
I recycled over 40+ times... . that was my decision I made.
You are the only one who can decide