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Question: Receive a missed call from ex
They dailed by accident - 0 (0%)
They wanted to talk - 1 (11.1%)
They missed you - 1 (11.1%)
They are playing games - 6 (66.7%)
No reason - 1 (11.1%)
Total Voters: 8

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« on: July 21, 2017, 04:42:00 PM »

Hi all I have received a call from my ex it's driving me mad. I still feel like I'm blocked on his phone however don't want to respond in case I'm not blocked and he gets the message and thinks I want him back. It's literally driving me mad. Do you think this is part of his mind game or do you think it was an accident
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« Reply #1 on: July 21, 2017, 05:27:31 PM »

Hi Unsureofmyself,

What are your feelings about each of the scenarios you've listed above?

For example, if he wants to talk, would you want to get into that?

If he misses you, does that change anything?

If he mis dialled how would you feel about discovering that?

Should he be toying with you and seeing if he can get a rise/reaction would you want to give him the satisfaction of responding?

My gut instinct tells me that he is testing the water to see if he has a way in for a recycle.  Which I guess could come under your playing games option, as it would be based upon him fulfilling a need of his own and with little or no consideration for the impact that has upon you.  Question is, are you open to that?

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« Reply #2 on: July 21, 2017, 06:21:09 PM »

Hi Unsureofmyself,

What does he want? It's anyone's guess, we'd be speculating Is there something that you'd like to tell him? Talk about it by sharing with us.
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