I do need good boundaries and to take better care of myself. As you know it is not easy to care for ourselves when we live with a BPD person. It seems that they become more angry as we try to put up boundaries.
Hello again, Sky100, You're welcome! Right, it isn't easy to care for oneself in a BPD r/s, though self-care is critical, in my view, if you are going to make progress. When we caretake others, we avoid taking care of ourselves (I've done it, too). It's about learning to love and accept oneself, which sounds easier that it is.
Keep us posted!
LuckyJim