I read the going no contact tips.
https://bpdfamily.com/content/no-contact-right-way-wrong-wayInterested to know any lessons learned from folks
I am preparing to leave my spouse now. Due to a history of physical abuse, my attorney agrees in an email to me that I should move out when she is out and leave a simple note with little explanation. Haven’t had a chance to talk to him but my take is the note will be a starting point for her to engage in divorce conflict so avoid giving her ammunition.
For myself, I need to detach from the FOG an she will surely throw more FOG at me when I detach. My plan is to not answer her calls or texts. Only look at emails but not respond for a few days to give me some space.
Does this strategy make sense? Also, I am debating if I should raise the no contact expectation in the note or just let the no contact emerge as she emails me.