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Author Topic: PD's at Work: Losing myself. Out numbered  (Read 479 times)
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« on: September 07, 2018, 07:32:57 PM »

i work with a bunch of people in an environment where pds are high.  im starting to loose myself... .im really stressed and do t know how to deal with everything anymore... .barely hanging on. what site should i be on?
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« Reply #1 on: September 08, 2018, 10:13:23 PM »

Hi trying2bkind,

What kinds of things are you dealing with in your work environment that are causing you grief? We're here to help. 

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« Reply #2 on: September 09, 2018, 04:12:09 PM »

Hi trying2bkind,

I hear ya! You try to be nice and sometimes it seems like you just get a load of other's people stuff dropped on ya. And you still try to be nice!

What's going on? How are you holding up?

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« Reply #3 on: September 09, 2018, 04:19:34 PM »

Hi trying2bkind,

I had a 2 year window  of time spent with a boss with serious Narcissistic Traits, I know how miserable and chaotic it can be to work with this kind of dysfunction. 

I found the tools I learned here helpful in my own situation (the tools here are helpful with any relationship really). 

What kinds of behaviors are you seeing in terms of your co-workers?

Panda39
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« Reply #4 on: September 24, 2018, 04:55:12 PM »

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