At the end of the day money isn't everything and if your willing to make sacrifices you can recoup it. What money cant buy is your moral compass.
It's my exe's narcissism. Her needs above all others. I had to declare bankruptcy to keep my head above water for the kids. I agree at the end of the day it's not about money. I'll rebuild but it will take time.
As my pastor says, "It is the price of freedom."
Sounds like you have a good pastor. I'm sorry this happened OutofEgypt. It sounds like we're all in the same boat. I thought I'm not wasting money fighting her in court because it may cost more money in the long run, money that the kids can use. I can say I walked away holding my head high with my integrity and values and she can't take that away.