Hi and welcome!
We are glad you found us. It is terrifying to witness and be the recipient of violence. My son became aggressive at 13 years old. If you want to read up more of my story , you can click onto my name. I am glad she is in therapy and has a mental health team. In my situation, I actually wound up in therapy for myself as well when I realized I needed my own support. I have also had to call my county's crisis intervention team to come to the house to de- escalate a situation. Trained counselors ( 2) come to your home in unmarked cars, no sirens and they can do an assessment/ de escalate etc. When my son got out of control as an adult, I called the police stating it was a mental health emergency so they didn't come in guns blazing. Just some things to think about. Also for your review here is something for you to read and think over.
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=61403.0Please keep in touch with us and let us know how you are doing