I think you are trying to rationalize something that's irrational!
Oil and water.
Can anyone know what goes on inside their mind?
I sure dont. Yes, I've tried... and am guilty of still finding myself doing it. But how can we?
We think they would think and act as we... .but THATS our mistake I think.
That's a good point. I am definitely guilty of that in all my interpersonal relationship. I guess it's just hard to to see why others don't think the way we do.