Yes, JustAMum... . BPD can be seen as a spectrum disorder. The disorder has core diagnosable criteria and manifests differently in each individual... . making it difficult to diagnose. Invisible or High Functioning and acting out Low Functioning are sometimes mentioned here on the site as well as in some of the books about people with BPD.
Feeling empty is one of the symptoms of BPD which can fall under the criteria of having a lack of sense of self... . sometimes described by a person with BPD as boredom. This may also be connected to self injury as some people with BPD will self injury just to "feel" something. It has also been written that they self injury in the face of overwhelming feelings because the release of endorphins can soothe their emotional pain.
The overwhelming fear of suicidal gestures or attempts can be paralyzing JustAMom. In the face of fear the best way forward may be to have a plan in place to address such a crisis. Do you have a safety plan to implement should your daughter go into crisis again? Here is some information that can help you develop a safety plan for your family:
Crisis Safety Plan: When a Family Member has Borderline Personality DisorderIf you have any questions about the safety plan please post them so we can assist you.
You aren't alone in this JustAMum... . we are here to help you.
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