How much do we miss the excitement?

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Hi

Just expaining myself here, maybe others can relate.  The relationship I had with a BPD was the worst.  At the same time it was full on, full of drama and controversy - you could call it exciting at times.  Now my life is bordering on boredom, not much going on.  Chaos can be addictive.

Regards

[ohmygosh]

Hi

Just expaining myself here, maybe others can relate.  The relationship I had with a BPD was the worst.  At the same time it was full on, full of drama and controversy - you could call it exciting at times.  Now my life is bordering on boredom, not much going on.  Chaos can be addictive.

Regards

[fakename]

hahah...

it definitely kept it interesting. i know i'd rather have someone i got along with and can enjoy time with rather than always arguing, justifying or babysitting a little kid... .  but i still do miss her and wish it worked out

[WT]

I don't miss the fighting and arguing, but I do miss how excited my ex would get about things that made her happy.  I'm a very calm person, so seeing her get so excited about something just made me smile when I saw it.  Of course, I also had to deal with the flip side of her excitability. ...

[fakename]

WT,

i miss that to. it always made me happy. she'd be like a little kid so excited.

i also miss the affection. whether it was throughout the day or when we are first meeting or leaving each other.

if it wasnt for the lying and cheating, i would have no problem putting up with all the other crazy in her