Hi Mightymama,
I want to join
anonymous_tico and welcome you to the family. I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through a difficult time and that your circumstances led you here but I’m glad that you decided to join us
Long story. I’m sorry. But I find myself calling everyday. Just to see if he will pick up. I can’t accept that I won’t get closure.
I want to just add to what
anonymous_tico said about rigid patterns with a pwBPD in that they are emotionally stunted at the young age of a child and react impulsively and you will find that they follow a particular pattern. That being said.
He’s left me, discarded, thrown in the trash, so many times. This is 5 years of a LDR .
I know that it’s easier said than done right now and that maybe it won’t bring complete consolation but it should help. Judging from your past together there’s a cycle there and eventually he comes back.
How long does this usually take?