Blue
When you least expect it, it will happen!
What I have learnt through this experience are 2 things:
- You have to close one door before the next one will open, and
- If you spend all of your time looking backwards over your shoulder you will miss the wonderful things that are sometimes right in front of you as you are moving forward
So don't keep looking backwards,start to look forward.
As weird as this may sound I re-discovered some songs, not about re-visiting the past and feeling melancholy, but about creating your own future and a new and better you. Every time I start to feel like I am slipping I play these songs and they just lift me up and allow me to move forward.
Seriously, music is the best healer!
The 2 songs, among many, that make me get up and go are from Bon Jovi (Lost Highway) and a band out of the late 70s early 80s called Boston (Don't Look Back).
Fine your own music, the sort of stuff that you play in your ears when your outside exercising, what ever that may be, where it just pumps you up and makes you work harder and apply the same process to your soul and your emotions!
You can do it. I did and I feel great!
Give it a go Blue. Look forward, don't look back!
Cheers
NiL